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As you can see from the posts I have been writing lately,
I have been mostly in a contemplative mood. This is next in that series
When something you want to do is not being done in the way you want, there are two options infront of you.
1. Fight and change it to be done in the way you want.
2. Adjust yourself to like the way it is done.
So which is the better way?
Generally if doing either ways doesnt effect you much you might prefer going in the second way... But what if you the cost of adjustment is too much?
I have a more adapting mentality but I am realizing more and more daily that we shouldnt adjust more than required and its better to fight and fail than accepting the outcome.
My friend Ketan, wrote a comment to my previous posts sometime back about the serenity prayer
God, grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
the courage to change the things I can;
and the wisdom to know the difference.
Looks easy but very difficult to implement. Dave Pollard, an Idealist has written the following lines here,