Friday, June 19, 2009

#Th!nkTweet - 140 bytes of wisdom in 140 characters - A Review


After reading the book 'Life Beyond Code' written by Rajesh Shetty, I was excited to review his latest book ThinkTweet, which contains 140 tweets on various topics..

I love Rajesh's take on networks, relationships, time and teamwork. I initially thought of selecting the best tweets and writing about them. But I was pleasantly surprised to see that each tweet made me pause, think and have an aha moment.

I just noted down a few tweets which hit me hard.. read them and you can understand the intelligent, witful but insightful message of the author.
One on relationships:
When it comes to
relationships, you hit a home run
when you stop keeping score.
This one makes you think on the direction of your life:
What will be
the title of a book
written about you?
What will be
its subtitle?
Why should
someone read it?
On the importance of journey:

If you are “faking it” so that
one day you can make it, you
are missing the point. It’s the
journey that counts.

Pick up this book for 140 such aha moments... which will leave you lot wiser than before you picked the book.

Its a small book with 140 such tweets on improving your business, relationships, networks, career, teamwork and life and will make for an easy read. Its an ideal gift for your friends. Anyway you will just be marvelled on reading the book. Thanks to @UpbeatNow for giving me an opportunity to read and spread this wisdom.

You can buy the book from here or here @ amazon

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Changing inner self Vs changing the outer world.

just a little touch of fall...Image by jmtimages via Flickr

As you can see from the posts I have been writing lately,
I have been mostly in a contemplative mood. This is next in that series

When something you want to do is not being done in the way you want, there are two options infront of you.

1. Fight and change it to be done in the way you want.
2. Adjust yourself to like the way it is done.

So which is the better way?

Generally if doing either ways doesnt effect you much you might prefer going in the second way... But what if you the cost of adjustment is too much?

I have a more adapting mentality but I am realizing more and more daily that we shouldnt adjust more than required and its better to fight and fail than accepting the outcome.

My friend Ketan, wrote a comment to my previous posts sometime back about the serenity prayer
God, grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
the courage to change the things I can;
and the wisdom to know the difference.

Looks easy but very difficult to implement. Dave Pollard, an Idealist has written the following lines here,
I've been talking a lot about my three latest self-improvement projects: To connect better with my own (largely suppressed) emotions, to become more empathetic, and to learn to live in Now Time instead of Anxious Time. I certainly believe that practice and exercise have value, but I'm increasingly convinced that any changes they provoke are likely to be modest, and perpetually difficult to sustain.

It seems there is a healthy level till which we can accomodate change but after that we should fight for bringing about the change we believe in.


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Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Mera Jeevan Kora Kagaz - lyrics - Kishore Kumar

Listened to a haunting song from some movie, sung by Kishore Kumar..


These are the lyrics.


Mera Jeevan kora kagaz kora hi rah gaya..
Mera Jeevan kora kagaz kora hi rah gaya..
Jo likhata aasuvo ke sang beh gaya.. :(

Mera Jeevan.... ....

Ek hava ka jhoka aaya,
Ek hava ka jhoka aaya, toota dali se phool,
Toota dali se phoool...
Na pavan ki naa chaman ki.. kisi ki hai ye bhool.
kisiii ki hai yee bhoool...
Khoy gayiiiiiiiiiiiiii kho gayi khusbhu hava me kuch na rah gayaaaaaaaa.............
Mera Jeevan..

Udte panchi kha tikhana, Udte panchi ka tikhana..
Mera naa koi jahaa.. Mera naa koi jahaa..
Naa dagar hai..naa khabar hai.. janaa hai mujh ko kahaa...
Jaana hai mujh ko kahaaa..
Ban ke sapnaaaaaaaaa , ban ke sapna.. humsafar ka saath rah gayaa...

Mera jeevan kora kagaz, kora hi rah gaya....



Sunday, June 14, 2009

The Invitation - A Poem


It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.

It doesn’t interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
for love
for your dream
for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon...
I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow
if you have been opened by life’s betrayals
or have become shrivelled and closed
from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain
mine or your own
without moving to hide it
or fade it
or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy
mine or your own
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
without cautioning us
to be careful
to be realistic
to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me
is true.
I want to know if you can
disappoint another
to be true to yourself.
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul.
If you can be faithless
and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see Beauty
even when it is not pretty
every day.
And if you can source your own life
from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure
yours and mine
and still stand at the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,
“Yes.”

It doesn’t interest me
to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up
after the night of grief and despair
weary and bruised to the bone
and do what needs to be done
to feed the children.

It doesn’t interest me who you know
or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand
in the centre of the fire
with me
and not shrink back.

It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom
you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you
from the inside
when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone
with yourself
and if you truly like the company you keep
in the empty moments.




The lines that have particularly touched me are -

I want to know if you can
disappoint another
to be true to yourself.
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul.

People can you do this?


Seheri - Lyrics - Oy movie with English lyrics


There is a very good song in Oy movie sung by Toshi and priya which talks about contradicting points of doing what we like i.e living spontaneously vs thinking a doing... I think there is a conflict about that in the movie..

The lyrics are awesome..

appudeppudo jaragina kadalo ippudepude jaragani kalalo

eppudaina e panileni aalochana dandage kada

unnadokkate nadichesamayam daanitone nuv chesey payanam marunimusham ledantu life gadipey merupula..

gala gala pareti nadi ekkadaina aagena adi..manasuku kattu odukani ani..una haddulanni daatukelte pandage mari..


seheri e..e..e seheri e..e..e..e seheri...e..e..e..e..arey chinnadi jindagi
seheri e..e..e seheri e..e..e..e seheri...e..e..e..e..arey chinnadi jindagi



-----//One of our reader has contributed the english lyrics.. Please let me know if there any corrections//------
Fast English lyrics are:
I am switching lanes, understanding that love's a pain
you cant went to top then we pop, champagne
she's sent to probe this hold that click or roll that click
but don't be sick with a frozen grips, stand by that to hold my hand

With drums:
frozen by the city light, happy to give the pain for up
marriage is the wrestle game nobody could break this up
i wanna go relax in a saggy hut, feels like little more in a relaxing spot
but thinking stop thinking, till i get my mind of the damn hood

enno malupulu kalisina jeevithame..chinukayyi veligipovalante telusukode

veyse pratiadugu padani aalochanatho gamyamedo telisi saagipove

repatikai kalaukantu kalalanni nijam chestu

aase ne swwasa ayite raate maaripoga...aaaaa


love u love u love u love u love u love u love u love u
love u love u love u love u love u love u love u love u

seheri e..e..e seheri e..e..e..e seheri...e..e..e..e..arey chinnadi jindagi
seheri e..e..e seheri e..e..e..e seheri...e..e..e..e..arey chinnadi jindagi

antuleni o andam undi andukomane lokam andi andukosame cheptunna raaji padatam maanuko..

kanulaku nachindi chusey manasuku tochindi chesey adigite e maata cheppey


navvutundagaane paikipote svargam e ani

seheri e..e..e seheri e..e..e..e seheri...e..e..e..e.e.arey chinnadi jindagi
seheri e..e..e seheri e..e..e..e seheri...e..e..e..e..e arey chinnadi jindagi

Thanks to Sunny5u for the lyrics.

Mobile Phone Theft - Modus Operandi && Indian Police Stations

It all started with forgetting my earphones in my room. My brother dropped me at the bus stop to go to the office. Its my habit to put on my head set as soon as I get into the bus and filter the noise outside. That day when my brother left me at the Chandana Brothers stop, I remarked that I forgot to bring my ear phones. He asked if we need to go back and bring it. I said it is fine and that I was already late to office and hence I will go to the office.
I was standing in the bus stand waiting for my bus 216 to come, watching my newly redressed phone - I changed the battery and the panel of the phone.. It sparkled like a new one.

Getting onto the bus and to get a seat in our bus is a mini war. We have to see the bus coming before it comes to the stop, hop in to a running bus competing with all the fellow travellers also are waiting like the sprinters waiting for the whistle in olympics, and then rush to get a seat. As I was performing this ritual on a fast approaching 216, I forgot to observe that someone might have been attracted by my new look mobile phone. So i just couldnt believe myself when after some time i tried to find my phone in all my pockets and bags. After searching for sometime, I confirmed that i lost it and wondered at the modus operandi. When people are trying their best to win the war of getting a seat in the bus, there are busy people with other agendas also....So, my failure to bring headset one day cost my mobile. It would have alerted me if I suddenly the songs stopped playing. So after I bought a new mobile I always make sure my songs are on, so that I wont lose my mobile again ;)

The Modus - operandi: First, there will be a group of people. While you are busy getting in to the bus they grab your phone. While one person will be blocking your way the other person wil try to leave the place and escape. So be very careful. Have the phone with you and have an eye on your phone always.

You might have seen in the newspapers that mobile phones were used in the blasts and being a law abiding citizen, I thought of filing a complaint about the loss of my mobile phone in the nearest police station. So, I went to the nearest police station and told them my story. They were helpful in that they listened to what I had to say. They asked a few questions about where I lost my phone and after I patiently answered all their questions, they said that I had to complain in a different police station. I was perplexed as to why I had to go to a different station which was very far away when I was already in a police station which was nearby to me.

After some days, I went to the said police station. It was a big one with separate rooms for different types of crimes, criminal , civil etc. One constable on hearing my story redirected me to the criminal cases room. The SI was not yet present and I made small talk with the peon there. I told him the story of how I lost my mobile and how my friends also lost their mobile in the same way. He asked about when I lost the mobile. As I waited till saturday to go the station when I lost the mobile on tuesday, he asked me number of questions to ascertain that I was telling the truth. He said that he had to ask all these questions as I waited for five days to complain. I told him, I didnt expect to get back the mobile but I came to complain as I wanted to highlight the plight of people and how commonplace the thefts have become and to request the police to take steps to stop it. I think he took it. I asked him what are the proofs I had to submit. He pointed me to a chart on the door specifying the required documents for filing a lost mobile phone complaint. It included the original bill, the IMEI number of the mobile and a 100rs challan in E-Seva. Seeing that i was discouraged to complain, thinking anyways I have lost a mobile and having no expectation of getting it back, what advantage I had of paying that challan. I asked if there is a way I could make a complaint online and why I had to come till this station - He answered if they allowed complaints on phone and net, they would have to work 24 hours to determine which were genuine complaints and which were fake. I told him that atleast we could submit some of our personally identifiable information like PAN or any other number and would like to submit the complaint online. I told it was just a matter of time before the complaints would be taken online. If they allowed that i would have complained on Tuesday at my convenience rather than waiting for saturday to complain.

Proofs required to file a complaint now:
1. Your original bill
2. The IMEI number of the phone (desirable)
3. 100 Rs challan from eSeva.

The police department has to look forward to use technology to their advantage and ease the work of the citizens. Hope to take notice.!!!

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

New version of IPhone affordable

When iphone was first released, I was awed by it and immediately wanted one. But it was one whole year before it came to India and even when it came to India it costed a whopping 32,000 rs. When we weigh it with the positives and negatives, it felt as if it would be waste investment. But with the newly released iphone 3G s,  it looks the price will come into affordable regions in India. 

If the report in Tech2 is true, then I will surely considering getting one. The iPhone is a game-changer in the mobile phone market, considering that 1 billion apps are downloaded from the app-store.  

Hold on to your hats ladies and gentlemen, you’re not going to believe this, the new iPhone 3G S is due to be out on June 19th of 2009 and here are the prices –

The 16GB version is going to be priced at Rs. 9,452 ($199) and Rs. 14, 202 ($299) for 32GB. It gets better; Apple also announced that they planned on keeping an 8GB version priced at Rs. 4,702 ($99) for a while on the markets. Of course all the above mentioned prices are seem so low because they are on contract with their respective service providers. You can expect the phone to be sold at its full price once it lands on Indian shores, since our service providers just don't love us as much! 



What are your thoughts on it?